When walking to school this morning, I noticed something I hadn't seen before. One of the houses on my walk was in the process of adding a white picket fence around the property. My first thought after seeing this was, "typical." It seemed like such a stereotypical suburban thing, almost like a status symbol of success. This got me thinking: how do we, as Americans, define the word "success?"
In my case, I have been hardwired since childhood to believe that I must be a doctor in order to be successful. And while it is a known fact now that I have no plans of being a doctor, I still sometimes feel like going to med school would be the "right" choice. We can't all be doctors, though. Does that make everybody who is not in the medical field unsuccessful? Of course not.
While I was considering blogging about this topic, I searched "white picket fence" on npr.org. The first result that came up was called "A Reality Check for Americans Obsessed With 'More'". You can listen to the recording below or read the transcript
HERE (also embedded below). Peter Sagal brings up a good point about success. He says:
I myself have more material wealth than 99 percent of all the human beings who have ever lived and I work in public radio. A medieval emperor would look at my stocked refrigerator, my closets filled with clothes, my powerful machinery, and immediately start coming up with ideas for a new Web site, so he could live the dream.
If success is defined as material wealth, then there is no need to worry according to Mr. Sagal. While money should be taken into account, I don't believe it should dictate which profession somebody chooses. Personally, I would define success as personal fulfillment. One is successful if they are completing the goals they have set for themselves. How would you define success, and how does your definition compare with how (you believe) the country defines it? Please comment below!!